A "Fire hose" for Luis!

Luis can spot someone using a hose from a block away. He recently noticed that our across-the-street-neighbors had a very cool hose attachment that made it like a low-pressure washer; though Luis thought it made the hose much more like a fireman's hose. Dave, the neighbor, very kindly allowed Luis to spray all of the plants, the concrete, both cars and most of his house with this "fireman's hose" before I wrangled Luis back across the street.

On his next trip to Home Depot, Diego picked up the $2 attachment for our hose and presented it to Luis, who then spent close to 45 minutes "putting out fires" in our back yard. Not the most conservative use of water, I'm afraid, but it did result in one EXTREMELY happy boy!

Zoo Trip!

There is a new exhibit at the zoo, Giants of the Savannah, that JUST opened. We went this morning for a quick trip to see this new area. We knew it was going to be hot, so we went early. Unfortunately, we'd have had to be there at 4a to arrive before the heat.

This new exhibit is towards the back of the zoo, meaning that we had to walk past lots of OTHER exhibits to get there. Exhibits that Luis was also interested in seeing. Exhibits that were distracting us from our mission. Exhibits that wasted precious minutes as the mercury was sky-rocketing.

By the time we got to the "main event", Diego, Luis and I were all sweating profusely and were all slightly annoyed (Luis that he kept getting dragged away from the thing he was looking at and D & me for having to drag). But it was worth it! The exhibit was fantastic!! We saw lions, cheetah's, giraffes, gazelle, zebra, and ostrich!

I was about to melt and in desperate need of a bathroom, and wondered in to one of the places that sells food. It turns out that this restaurant abuts the lion enclosure. I quickly discovered that 5 of the lions were lying up against the glass wall of the restaurant, presumably trying to cool off, just like I was. I scurried out to get Luis and Diego so that they could also enjoy this great view of the lions.

You don't have to see Luis's whole face to see how cool he thinks this is!

One of the things you can do is to feed the giraffes. What it really means is that you can spend $5 to buy 3 pieces of romaine lettuce and then elbow your way to the fence, and hope that the giraffes are still hungry. Luis loved it!!

Back in the summer of 2008 while in Florida, we went to the Brevard County Zoo. It was interesting to go back to that post and see Luis feeding the giraffes two years ago, wearing the same batman hat (and seem him just as hot as he was today!).

And, as Diego pointed out, it was so hot and humid that you truly felt like you were on an African Safari!

Not Sure What to Title This One!

Despite the rising temperatures (it was in the low 90's yesterday!), Luis still really, really likes to wear his winter coat outside (and his tall pants, and his long pajama pants, and his fleecy pj's, etc.). Take this picture for instance. It's hard to tell, but under his winter jacket is a fleece pj top. And he is again wearing his rescue shoes. Despite the rain, the temperature in this photo is in the upper 80's!!

35 Weeks

I'm trying to be better about getting pregnancy shots. But so far, I'm taking them myself, which doesn't make it any easier. This is right at 35 weeks - and I'm definitely showing! For a comparison shot, here is me a 34 weeks when I was pregnant with Luis. With the clothing being so different, I find it hard to compare, personally.

The last week or so has been tough - due to some minor swelling, I can no longer wear my wedding or engagement ring, and I'm down to just 2 pairs of shoes. These things happened last time, so I wasn't so surprised. But a couple of days ago, I woke up, put my contacts in, and realized that I couldn't really see out of my right eye. Got a new contact for that eye, and still everything was fuzzy. Took me a few more minutes to realize that this was another side effect of pregnancy swelling - that my eye ball had change shape just enough to render my current contact prescription "invalid" for me (not sure of the right word, but the bottom line is that everything was suddenly blurry!). I'm not looking forward to a month of just my glasses. The last time I bought new glasses was just after Luis was born. The prescription is way out of date AND the glasses don't fit well (easily slip down my nose every time I look down). Sigh. A small price to pay for a new life - or so I keep telling myself!!

I'm still trying to catch up on blog posts, and am posting a bit out of order. I am hoping to get a little more caught up over the weekend. At my last OB appointment (35 weeks!) my doctor told me I needed to be off my feet and resting more. This is bad news in terms of caring for Luis, Diego and the house, but it may be good news for my work with Thomas and updating the blog...

Ready to Rescue

Luis is wearing his rescue shoes and rescue goggles in case someone is stuck in the tall tall grass - he can rescue them. So says Luis.

Luis the Fashionista

Luis really does do a pretty good job of picking out his clothes. Diego and I joke a bit about his affinity for black turtle necks and long sleeved black shirts, but that seems to be what he likes. He picked this outfit out on his own.

As we were walking down to climb the small magnolia tree in a neighbors yard, Luis stopped at this fire hydrant and asked me to take his picture.

When I Wish Upon a Star...

... I dream about the day when Luis really can cut the grass. Luis seems pretty excited about that day, too. Though to be fair, Diego, who does 99.99% of the lawn maintenance is probably a little more excited than me!

33 Weeks

There have been precious few pictures taken of me this pregnancy. This one here is at 33.5 weeks, which is kind of hard to believe. I feel like I look smaller than I did at 26 weeks, but I think it's the weird framing of this picture. I definitely feel bigger than this looks.

Generally speaking, things are going well. I am continually amazed at what a different pregnancy this is compared to Luis's. I know that ALL pregnancies are different, just as all babies are different. I'm sure that part of the reason it's been harder is a result of already having a child at home and also the simple fact that I'm 3 1/2 years older. I definitely feel much more tired at the end of the day (and sometimes in the middle of the day or even early in the morning) than I did with Luis.

I'm trying to get some extra hours in now, in anticipation of slowing down towards the end of the pregnancy. I enjoy the work tremendously, but after a couple of nights of working UBER late and then being up early with Luis, I realize that I just can't do it anymore. Sigh.

A Package for the Baby and the Big Kid

Peg Norris located the Norris-McDow moses basket for us and shipped it our way. I found myself very nostalgic about it's arrival, and so grateful that another one of our babies can sleep in it. Also in the package was a Zanzibar jersey for Luis. While Luis likes it, Diego likes it more!

Batting Practice

These days, Diego often takes Luis out in to the backyard for a little batting practice before dinner. Luis loves the time with Diego, and I love the quiet time to finish pulling dinner together. Diego, very smartly, uses whiffle balls with Luis - allowing Luis to hit hard, but with little concern for hitting/damaging anything. Despite the fact that Diego REALLY does not like baseball, he has been a great batting coach for Luis.

A Trip to the Zoo (with Luka)

In the last couple of weeks, we have been doing more with Luis's friend Luka (and Luka's mom Lea Ann). Today, we went to the zoo together, and had a great time!

One of the nicest things about going to a familiar place with new people is that we see new things (the first time we went to the zoo with Hyram and his family, we finally made it all the way to the reptile house, a sight we'd missed our first 100 visits to the zoo). Luka and Lea Ann introduced us to the Discovery House - a classroom like area in the children's zoo area. Honestly, we migrated that way to enjoy the air conditioning, but found lots of interesting things once inside.

The MOST interesting, to me at least, was when Luis picked up a piece of chalk to draw a picture of Fireman Sam. I was expecting a sort of scribble that I normally see. When I looked up distractedly and saw this:

I almost fell out of my chair. I had no idea Luis could draw such a LIFE-LIKE drawing. Pretty exciting stuff.

Here are Luka and Luis playing on a caterpillar in the kids zoo. All in all, it was a fun day!

Still Loving Firetrucks!

Almost every time we go to Walmart, we see firetrucks and fireman (much to Luis's delight). And much to MY delight, they are always VERY friendly with Luis, allowing him to tour the truck, try on gear and ask lots of questions. Today, Diego was with us when we went - and I was glad that Diego got to see, first hand, what these encounters are like.

Snuggled in (Ashley's) Bed

We were having a quiet kind of morning where I try to get some work done around the house and thus let Luis watch too much TV. He stays in his pajamas and loves it. So while I was cleaning the bathroom, Luis went to get a few "comfort items" and then sprawled out on Ashley's bed to watch some TV in our room. You can see Alfie (the green/orange turtle), Baxter (black & white dog), Puppy Dog (the tan dog barely sticking out under Alfie), Bat, and Blanket. And on top of Luis is the amazing quilt that Mercedes made for Luis for Christmas. That he brought the quilt to the snuggle-fest is what I love best about this photo!

Luis Camping

While I was in Rock Hill working, Diego took Luis on his first camping trip. It was a HUGE success.

The Joker

It's just raspberry popsicle, but it looks A LOT like the Joker make up to me!

Lil Horns: Team Photo

Luis's team, the Lil Horns. Luis is easy to spot, as he is the only kid who refused to wear his hat.

A Boy and His Dog

I love, love, love this picture of Luis riding his tricycle and Ashley running along beside him. Ashley will never be Luis's dog (she will always be mine), but this image of the two of them allows me to pretend, for a moment that she is his dog, that they'll grow up together and go on adventures love each other. To me, there is something very quintessential about a boy and his dog.

And it reminds me a bit of the dog I had growing up, Pup Pup the Irish Setter. (Of course, Pup could not be trusted off-leash and thus would have never run beside me like this on my bike, but that's a minor detail.)

Back in DC

Last Saturday afternoon, Luis and I boarded a plane to spend eight days back in the MD/DC/VA area - helping Mom get some projects done before her upcoming knee surgery, meeting the newest Rimicci, checking in on the house, and generally catching up with friends. It had been almost a year since our last visit.

Complicating matters was the fact that Diego was in DC the week before on business. We overlapped for a mere 15 hours, between when we flew in to BWI and he flew out of DCA. Sigh. The good news is that we were able to meet up at JuanFe's and RC's newly renovated condo in DC for brunch before Diego flew out. Luis loves loves loves his Uncles JF & RC, and this visit was no different. Luis had a great time exploring the new condo, trying on RC's snorkel & mask, playing with RC's extensive vintage car collection (think matchbox - but from the 60's and 70's), pretending to be a fireman, playing construction in their back yard (complete with traffic cones!) and generally loving and snuggling with them both.

Luis, RC and the snorkel

A mere sampling of the car collection

Fireman Luis, to the rescue!

Back at Bibi Croom & Grandpa Sandy's house, Luis enjoyed his usual activities: feeding the birds with Grandpa Sandy, sitting on the "tractor" (lawn mower), playing with toys that I played with as a child, reading stories, and cooking with Bibi.

Luis and Sandy feeding the birds

In addition, Mom bought Luis his own fireman costume, complete with jacket, helmet, badge, fire extinguisher and bullhorn. Apparently, the bullhorn takes batteries, but Luis will NEVER know that. The costume was a big hit with Luis (no big surprise!). Here, Luis poses with Mom and Sandy.

We spent two days in Northern Virginia, which was great. We stayed with Sarah and her family (always a treat). Luis enjoyed playing with both William (almost 7) and Matthew (3), and was fairly unimpressed with Baby Elinor (1 mo). While in that neck of the woods (Falls Church), we stopped in on my friends at HITT Contracting and admired their new building. While I was admiring how beautiful it was, Luis was appreciating that lots of people who work for a construction company have construction vehicle toys in their offices. We met up with Lopa for a visit and lunch and then swung by our house to check on it and the tenants. We had hoped to also see Aunt Midge (who turned out to be travelling) and Emily Poulin (who had a crazy work schedule), to no avail. Unfortunately, I didn't snap a single picture after the ones of Fireman Luis - not even on my camera phone. :(

The two nights we spent with Sarah were the 4th and 5th nights of our trip, and Luis was starting to miss the comforts and routines at home. The first night, he sat bolt up in bed at 1a (we were sharing a bed) and screamed out BACA!! It was the first time he'd asked about it on our trip. It took quite some time to quite him back down before he eventually fell back asleep. The second night, he again woke in the middle of the night and decided that he was going home. Right Now. He tried to take off his PJ's and get dressed, to put things back in our bag, saying that he was going to the airport to fly home. At 2a. The only way I could talk him down was to explain that the pilots and planes were all sleeping, and wouldn't wake up until the sun comes up tomorrow. Thankfully, he bought that version of the truth and we were able to get some sleep. Needless to say, from a restfulness perspective, it was a rough couple of days.

Jeanette came down from New York on Thursday night and stayed with us until Saturday. We hadn't seen her since August of last year when she and her boys came to Dallas. It was a super fun 36 hours, and I'm not sure who enjoyed Jeanette's company more, me or Luis.

In between all of these visits, Mom and I cleaned out almost every closet and dresser in house, making piles and piles of donation materials (which Sandy carted off to Good Will daily) and piles of trash. I think it was very satisfying to Mom to do so much decluttering. It was satisfying to me, and it wasn't even my stuff!

Baca Fairy

Once upon a time, I said that Luis would be out of diapers and rid of his baca (pacifier) by his third birthday. While Luis was, in fact, out of diapers several months before his third birthday, December 22, 2009 came and went with no sign of departure for the baca. My excuse is that there was just too much going on with pregnancy, family in town, the holidays, etc. But I just didn't do it.

As my pregnancy progressed, I began to feel more and more pressure to break Luis of his pacifier habit before we had another pacifier user in the house. Then, when we were at the dentist last month, he reinforced that it was time for the Baca to go. So I steeled my resolve to do it and made a plan. After talking to many friends about their experiences, we decided to go the Baca Fairy route. The Baca Fairy, for those of you who don't know, is a fairy who comes in the night, collects up all the Baca's from your house and gives them to new babies who need them and leaves a new toy as a way of saying "Thanks!" (for some people, the Baca Fairy magically turns all of those bacas into a new toy, no re-gifting involved).

The week before the big day, I started to talk it up to Luis, explaining that the Baca Fairy would come and take the bacas, and that she would bring a toy. We also talked about how the dentist had said that the bacas were hurting his teeth, and we'd look daily in the mirror to 'admire' the 1/8" gap between his top and bottom teeth when he smiled. Luis was clearly a little gun shy of this idea.

I picked the Thursday before spring break as the Big Day, mostly so that we could be (hopefully) totally Baca Free before returning to school, as I did not want his teachers to have to deal with any of his possible withdrawal issues. Unfortunately, said Thursday arrived just 3 days before Luis and I were scheduled to take a 8 day trip to the East Coast.

Luis had his last Baca sleep on Thursday at school. That night, at bedtime, I told Luis that the Baca Fairy had taken all the bacas while he was at school, and that she'd come back in the night with a toy. He seemed to buy that story. I was prepared for all kinds of hell at bed time - sadness, anger, confusion, but mostly a lot of tears. I made a point of not planning to do any work, or anything really productive that night, as I imagined lots and lots of trips to put Luis back into bed, to console him, etc. I was ready to fight this fight.

Except that Luis went to bed without a peep; didn't even come down once. The next day, at nap time, he asked if there were any bacas. When I reminded him that there weren't, he took it in stride and went straight to sleep. It's been two days now, and all seems to be going well. Luis has barely looked back at his Baca days. It helps, a lot, that he LOVES LOVES LOVES the present the Baca Fairy brought him - a "airport rescue fire truck" (which really just means a neon green fire truck). He's told me at least 25 times how much he loves it.

Now, I'm just a little worried that on our trip, without the baca OR the toy, that he won't be so hip to the idea...

Some Like it Hot

I have had a very hard time encouraging Luis to embrace the warmer weather with warmer-weather clothes. He insists on wearing his "tall pants" every day. And most days, he requires a long sleeved shirt as well. It didn't matter that it was in the 80's today, Luis was intent on this particular outfit. When asked about the temperature or about being hot, Luis replies, "It's OK Momma, I LIKE to be hot."

Sigh. Wonder where he gets his stubborn nature from???