Alejo - Day 2

Day 2 was much like Day 1 - Alejo slept about 23 hours of the day and had short nursing sessions in every couple of hours. He also cooled his jets under the UV lights. Diego came up (after staying home with Luis and getting him off to school), Lauren arrived, and I laid in the bed.

Alejo - Day 1

Alejo's first day was pretty uneventful. Diego went home before breakfast to see Luis and change clothes (he had a big meeting he hoped to get to). Alejo slept. Diego came back up to the hospital to see us. Alejo slept. Diego went home to get Luis so Luis could meet Alejo. Alejo slept. Luis checked out every button, gadget and item in the hospital room. Alejo slept. Diego took Luis home for dinner and bedtime. Alejo slept. He did wake up a few times to nurse, but then it was always right back to sleep.

Diego had a little nap, too - it had been a long night for all three of us.

Alejo did open his eyes for a few minutes, just enough time to get a couple of good pictures. Then it was back to sleep.

Super Smart Luis

When we went to the hospital (because I was in labor), my friend Leah came to stay with Luis. We had talked about the plan with Luis for a couple of weeks - to help minimize the chance that he'd freak out if he found Leah in our bed one night with Diego and I gone. We talked about how babies come whenever they are ready, and that we won't know when until it's time. We talked about how sometimes babies come in the middle of the night. We told Luis that the baby would be born at the hospital, and that Daddy and Dr. Reyes would be there to help me. We also explained that Luis would be able to come up AFTERWARDS to meet the baby and visit with Mommy. He seemed to be pretty hip to the plan...

The night Alejo was born, Luis came in to our room about 2a, and woke Leah up to ask if he could use "mommy's potty" to go to the bathroom. He didn't actually acknowledge that it wasn't me in the bed, or that Leah was there. After using the bathroom, he went straight back to bed. About two hours later, he came back in and woke Leah up again. She said, "Guess what Luis? You have a baby brother now! Your mom and dad are at the hospital!!" Luis didn't even blink and simply said, "I KNOW! That's why you're here."

Then he asked if he could snuggle her, climbed in the bed and went right back to sleep!

Luis y Alejo se encuentran por primera vez.

Welcome Alejandro Rincon!

Wednesday evening (June 29), I was feeling a bit poorly after my 40-week exam that afternoon (at which time my body was clearly getting ready for labor - 3cm dilated - but showing no immediate signs of it). I took it easy, and after getting Luis to bed, laid down on the couch for a rest. At 8:30, I realized that the "crampy" feeling I was having was happening ~ every 5 minutes. So I turned on the stopwatch function on my watch to get a better understanding of what was happening. And I sent a text to my friend Leah to put her on notice (she was our person to stay overnight with Luis should we need to go to the hospital). An hour later, I was having strong contractions every 4 minutes. I called the OB at 10, who suggested I take some Tylenol and call her back in 30 minutes. I told her I'd already had some Tylenol and that I was pretty sure I was in labor. She consented that I could head to the hospital "to see what's going on".

Leah came over and Diego and I headed out to Baylor at 10:30p. By now, the contractions are so strong and regular that I am sure I'm in labor. When I get to the hospital and they ask "how often" about the contractions I say "Very". They get me checked in and into a room. They get me on the fetal monitor to see how baby is doing, and then they check my progress. I was 8 cm dilated! The nurse assured me that my doctor was on her way and would be here soon. I told the nurse I was more interested in how soon the anesthesiologist could get there. My ideals of an epidural-free birth had vanished somewhere around 10:15p when the contractions had me doubled over.

The short version is that both the anesthesiologist and the OB made it in plenty of time. Despite an episode where baby's heatrate dropped during delivery, Alejandro Rincon was born at 1:39a. He weighed in at 7lbs 9oz and was a little over 20" long. Diego and I were both taken aback by the fact that Alejo was the spitting image of his big brother when Luis was born. In fact, Diego was with the nurses who were cleaning Alejo off and commented, "I've seen Luis make that face - TONIGHT at dinner!" And it's true. We both see a lot of Luis's features and Luis's expressions in Alejo's face.

[I am happy to share the "long version" of the story with anyone who is interested!]

Continuing to play Catch Up

I really, really am trying to get caught up with the blog, so that I can then try to stay current with the blog. To that end, I added fourteen new posts today, capturing May 2010 for the Rincons. I realize that April is missing, as is June - but hopefully not for long.

Today marks 39 weeks of my pregnancy, and really, I think the baby could come any day (or, it could be another 10 days, who really knows??). But I'd like to get caught up before then, because I think it will be MUUUUUUUUCH harder to catch up afterwards.

Enjoy the new pictures and stories, and stay tuned for more!

Did I mention that Luis likes to read the Wall Street Journal?

Today at school, Luis's class was discussing things that float and sink. When the teacher held up a plastic boat and asked Luis if it would float or sink, he said, "Float! Just like the oil in the ocean."

Along the same lines, when I turned the TV on this morning, Good Morning America was on and Matt Lauer was interviewing President Obama. Luis immediately said, "Look Momma, it's Barack Obama!" I commended him on this. Then after listening a minute to the interview, Luis asked, "Is he talking about the oil?"

(On a humorous note, Luis says 'oil' like a real East-Texan would - oeeeeel.)

Luis's Posse

Unfortunately, this isn't the clearest picture, but it is great in that it shows so many of Luis's friends. On the last day of (the spring session of) Luis's Parent's Day Out program, most of the kids in class met up at Toddler Park for a play date. In this picture, you can see (from Left to Right) Benjamin, Logan (red head), Collin, Luke and Luka. There were a surprisingly large number of boys in Luis's class this year!

A "Fire hose" for Luis!

Luis can spot someone using a hose from a block away. He recently noticed that our across-the-street-neighbors had a very cool hose attachment that made it like a low-pressure washer; though Luis thought it made the hose much more like a fireman's hose. Dave, the neighbor, very kindly allowed Luis to spray all of the plants, the concrete, both cars and most of his house with this "fireman's hose" before I wrangled Luis back across the street.

On his next trip to Home Depot, Diego picked up the $2 attachment for our hose and presented it to Luis, who then spent close to 45 minutes "putting out fires" in our back yard. Not the most conservative use of water, I'm afraid, but it did result in one EXTREMELY happy boy!

Zoo Trip!

There is a new exhibit at the zoo, Giants of the Savannah, that JUST opened. We went this morning for a quick trip to see this new area. We knew it was going to be hot, so we went early. Unfortunately, we'd have had to be there at 4a to arrive before the heat.

This new exhibit is towards the back of the zoo, meaning that we had to walk past lots of OTHER exhibits to get there. Exhibits that Luis was also interested in seeing. Exhibits that were distracting us from our mission. Exhibits that wasted precious minutes as the mercury was sky-rocketing.

By the time we got to the "main event", Diego, Luis and I were all sweating profusely and were all slightly annoyed (Luis that he kept getting dragged away from the thing he was looking at and D & me for having to drag). But it was worth it! The exhibit was fantastic!! We saw lions, cheetah's, giraffes, gazelle, zebra, and ostrich!

I was about to melt and in desperate need of a bathroom, and wondered in to one of the places that sells food. It turns out that this restaurant abuts the lion enclosure. I quickly discovered that 5 of the lions were lying up against the glass wall of the restaurant, presumably trying to cool off, just like I was. I scurried out to get Luis and Diego so that they could also enjoy this great view of the lions.

You don't have to see Luis's whole face to see how cool he thinks this is!

One of the things you can do is to feed the giraffes. What it really means is that you can spend $5 to buy 3 pieces of romaine lettuce and then elbow your way to the fence, and hope that the giraffes are still hungry. Luis loved it!!

Back in the summer of 2008 while in Florida, we went to the Brevard County Zoo. It was interesting to go back to that post and see Luis feeding the giraffes two years ago, wearing the same batman hat (and seem him just as hot as he was today!).

And, as Diego pointed out, it was so hot and humid that you truly felt like you were on an African Safari!

Not Sure What to Title This One!

Despite the rising temperatures (it was in the low 90's yesterday!), Luis still really, really likes to wear his winter coat outside (and his tall pants, and his long pajama pants, and his fleecy pj's, etc.). Take this picture for instance. It's hard to tell, but under his winter jacket is a fleece pj top. And he is again wearing his rescue shoes. Despite the rain, the temperature in this photo is in the upper 80's!!

35 Weeks

I'm trying to be better about getting pregnancy shots. But so far, I'm taking them myself, which doesn't make it any easier. This is right at 35 weeks - and I'm definitely showing! For a comparison shot, here is me a 34 weeks when I was pregnant with Luis. With the clothing being so different, I find it hard to compare, personally.

The last week or so has been tough - due to some minor swelling, I can no longer wear my wedding or engagement ring, and I'm down to just 2 pairs of shoes. These things happened last time, so I wasn't so surprised. But a couple of days ago, I woke up, put my contacts in, and realized that I couldn't really see out of my right eye. Got a new contact for that eye, and still everything was fuzzy. Took me a few more minutes to realize that this was another side effect of pregnancy swelling - that my eye ball had change shape just enough to render my current contact prescription "invalid" for me (not sure of the right word, but the bottom line is that everything was suddenly blurry!). I'm not looking forward to a month of just my glasses. The last time I bought new glasses was just after Luis was born. The prescription is way out of date AND the glasses don't fit well (easily slip down my nose every time I look down). Sigh. A small price to pay for a new life - or so I keep telling myself!!

I'm still trying to catch up on blog posts, and am posting a bit out of order. I am hoping to get a little more caught up over the weekend. At my last OB appointment (35 weeks!) my doctor told me I needed to be off my feet and resting more. This is bad news in terms of caring for Luis, Diego and the house, but it may be good news for my work with Thomas and updating the blog...

Ready to Rescue

Luis is wearing his rescue shoes and rescue goggles in case someone is stuck in the tall tall grass - he can rescue them. So says Luis.

Luis the Fashionista

Luis really does do a pretty good job of picking out his clothes. Diego and I joke a bit about his affinity for black turtle necks and long sleeved black shirts, but that seems to be what he likes. He picked this outfit out on his own.

As we were walking down to climb the small magnolia tree in a neighbors yard, Luis stopped at this fire hydrant and asked me to take his picture.

When I Wish Upon a Star...

... I dream about the day when Luis really can cut the grass. Luis seems pretty excited about that day, too. Though to be fair, Diego, who does 99.99% of the lawn maintenance is probably a little more excited than me!

33 Weeks

There have been precious few pictures taken of me this pregnancy. This one here is at 33.5 weeks, which is kind of hard to believe. I feel like I look smaller than I did at 26 weeks, but I think it's the weird framing of this picture. I definitely feel bigger than this looks.

Generally speaking, things are going well. I am continually amazed at what a different pregnancy this is compared to Luis's. I know that ALL pregnancies are different, just as all babies are different. I'm sure that part of the reason it's been harder is a result of already having a child at home and also the simple fact that I'm 3 1/2 years older. I definitely feel much more tired at the end of the day (and sometimes in the middle of the day or even early in the morning) than I did with Luis.

I'm trying to get some extra hours in now, in anticipation of slowing down towards the end of the pregnancy. I enjoy the work tremendously, but after a couple of nights of working UBER late and then being up early with Luis, I realize that I just can't do it anymore. Sigh.

A Package for the Baby and the Big Kid

Peg Norris located the Norris-McDow moses basket for us and shipped it our way. I found myself very nostalgic about it's arrival, and so grateful that another one of our babies can sleep in it. Also in the package was a Zanzibar jersey for Luis. While Luis likes it, Diego likes it more!

Batting Practice

These days, Diego often takes Luis out in to the backyard for a little batting practice before dinner. Luis loves the time with Diego, and I love the quiet time to finish pulling dinner together. Diego, very smartly, uses whiffle balls with Luis - allowing Luis to hit hard, but with little concern for hitting/damaging anything. Despite the fact that Diego REALLY does not like baseball, he has been a great batting coach for Luis.

A Trip to the Zoo (with Luka)

In the last couple of weeks, we have been doing more with Luis's friend Luka (and Luka's mom Lea Ann). Today, we went to the zoo together, and had a great time!

One of the nicest things about going to a familiar place with new people is that we see new things (the first time we went to the zoo with Hyram and his family, we finally made it all the way to the reptile house, a sight we'd missed our first 100 visits to the zoo). Luka and Lea Ann introduced us to the Discovery House - a classroom like area in the children's zoo area. Honestly, we migrated that way to enjoy the air conditioning, but found lots of interesting things once inside.

The MOST interesting, to me at least, was when Luis picked up a piece of chalk to draw a picture of Fireman Sam. I was expecting a sort of scribble that I normally see. When I looked up distractedly and saw this:

I almost fell out of my chair. I had no idea Luis could draw such a LIFE-LIKE drawing. Pretty exciting stuff.

Here are Luka and Luis playing on a caterpillar in the kids zoo. All in all, it was a fun day!

Still Loving Firetrucks!

Almost every time we go to Walmart, we see firetrucks and fireman (much to Luis's delight). And much to MY delight, they are always VERY friendly with Luis, allowing him to tour the truck, try on gear and ask lots of questions. Today, Diego was with us when we went - and I was glad that Diego got to see, first hand, what these encounters are like.

Snuggled in (Ashley's) Bed

We were having a quiet kind of morning where I try to get some work done around the house and thus let Luis watch too much TV. He stays in his pajamas and loves it. So while I was cleaning the bathroom, Luis went to get a few "comfort items" and then sprawled out on Ashley's bed to watch some TV in our room. You can see Alfie (the green/orange turtle), Baxter (black & white dog), Puppy Dog (the tan dog barely sticking out under Alfie), Bat, and Blanket. And on top of Luis is the amazing quilt that Mercedes made for Luis for Christmas. That he brought the quilt to the snuggle-fest is what I love best about this photo!

Luis Camping

While I was in Rock Hill working, Diego took Luis on his first camping trip. It was a HUGE success.

The Joker

It's just raspberry popsicle, but it looks A LOT like the Joker make up to me!

Lil Horns: Team Photo

Luis's team, the Lil Horns. Luis is easy to spot, as he is the only kid who refused to wear his hat.

A Boy and His Dog

I love, love, love this picture of Luis riding his tricycle and Ashley running along beside him. Ashley will never be Luis's dog (she will always be mine), but this image of the two of them allows me to pretend, for a moment that she is his dog, that they'll grow up together and go on adventures love each other. To me, there is something very quintessential about a boy and his dog.

And it reminds me a bit of the dog I had growing up, Pup Pup the Irish Setter. (Of course, Pup could not be trusted off-leash and thus would have never run beside me like this on my bike, but that's a minor detail.)

Back in DC

Last Saturday afternoon, Luis and I boarded a plane to spend eight days back in the MD/DC/VA area - helping Mom get some projects done before her upcoming knee surgery, meeting the newest Rimicci, checking in on the house, and generally catching up with friends. It had been almost a year since our last visit.

Complicating matters was the fact that Diego was in DC the week before on business. We overlapped for a mere 15 hours, between when we flew in to BWI and he flew out of DCA. Sigh. The good news is that we were able to meet up at JuanFe's and RC's newly renovated condo in DC for brunch before Diego flew out. Luis loves loves loves his Uncles JF & RC, and this visit was no different. Luis had a great time exploring the new condo, trying on RC's snorkel & mask, playing with RC's extensive vintage car collection (think matchbox - but from the 60's and 70's), pretending to be a fireman, playing construction in their back yard (complete with traffic cones!) and generally loving and snuggling with them both.

Luis, RC and the snorkel

A mere sampling of the car collection

Fireman Luis, to the rescue!

Back at Bibi Croom & Grandpa Sandy's house, Luis enjoyed his usual activities: feeding the birds with Grandpa Sandy, sitting on the "tractor" (lawn mower), playing with toys that I played with as a child, reading stories, and cooking with Bibi.

Luis and Sandy feeding the birds

In addition, Mom bought Luis his own fireman costume, complete with jacket, helmet, badge, fire extinguisher and bullhorn. Apparently, the bullhorn takes batteries, but Luis will NEVER know that. The costume was a big hit with Luis (no big surprise!). Here, Luis poses with Mom and Sandy.

We spent two days in Northern Virginia, which was great. We stayed with Sarah and her family (always a treat). Luis enjoyed playing with both William (almost 7) and Matthew (3), and was fairly unimpressed with Baby Elinor (1 mo). While in that neck of the woods (Falls Church), we stopped in on my friends at HITT Contracting and admired their new building. While I was admiring how beautiful it was, Luis was appreciating that lots of people who work for a construction company have construction vehicle toys in their offices. We met up with Lopa for a visit and lunch and then swung by our house to check on it and the tenants. We had hoped to also see Aunt Midge (who turned out to be travelling) and Emily Poulin (who had a crazy work schedule), to no avail. Unfortunately, I didn't snap a single picture after the ones of Fireman Luis - not even on my camera phone. :(

The two nights we spent with Sarah were the 4th and 5th nights of our trip, and Luis was starting to miss the comforts and routines at home. The first night, he sat bolt up in bed at 1a (we were sharing a bed) and screamed out BACA!! It was the first time he'd asked about it on our trip. It took quite some time to quite him back down before he eventually fell back asleep. The second night, he again woke in the middle of the night and decided that he was going home. Right Now. He tried to take off his PJ's and get dressed, to put things back in our bag, saying that he was going to the airport to fly home. At 2a. The only way I could talk him down was to explain that the pilots and planes were all sleeping, and wouldn't wake up until the sun comes up tomorrow. Thankfully, he bought that version of the truth and we were able to get some sleep. Needless to say, from a restfulness perspective, it was a rough couple of days.

Jeanette came down from New York on Thursday night and stayed with us until Saturday. We hadn't seen her since August of last year when she and her boys came to Dallas. It was a super fun 36 hours, and I'm not sure who enjoyed Jeanette's company more, me or Luis.

In between all of these visits, Mom and I cleaned out almost every closet and dresser in house, making piles and piles of donation materials (which Sandy carted off to Good Will daily) and piles of trash. I think it was very satisfying to Mom to do so much decluttering. It was satisfying to me, and it wasn't even my stuff!

Baca Fairy

Once upon a time, I said that Luis would be out of diapers and rid of his baca (pacifier) by his third birthday. While Luis was, in fact, out of diapers several months before his third birthday, December 22, 2009 came and went with no sign of departure for the baca. My excuse is that there was just too much going on with pregnancy, family in town, the holidays, etc. But I just didn't do it.

As my pregnancy progressed, I began to feel more and more pressure to break Luis of his pacifier habit before we had another pacifier user in the house. Then, when we were at the dentist last month, he reinforced that it was time for the Baca to go. So I steeled my resolve to do it and made a plan. After talking to many friends about their experiences, we decided to go the Baca Fairy route. The Baca Fairy, for those of you who don't know, is a fairy who comes in the night, collects up all the Baca's from your house and gives them to new babies who need them and leaves a new toy as a way of saying "Thanks!" (for some people, the Baca Fairy magically turns all of those bacas into a new toy, no re-gifting involved).

The week before the big day, I started to talk it up to Luis, explaining that the Baca Fairy would come and take the bacas, and that she would bring a toy. We also talked about how the dentist had said that the bacas were hurting his teeth, and we'd look daily in the mirror to 'admire' the 1/8" gap between his top and bottom teeth when he smiled. Luis was clearly a little gun shy of this idea.

I picked the Thursday before spring break as the Big Day, mostly so that we could be (hopefully) totally Baca Free before returning to school, as I did not want his teachers to have to deal with any of his possible withdrawal issues. Unfortunately, said Thursday arrived just 3 days before Luis and I were scheduled to take a 8 day trip to the East Coast.

Luis had his last Baca sleep on Thursday at school. That night, at bedtime, I told Luis that the Baca Fairy had taken all the bacas while he was at school, and that she'd come back in the night with a toy. He seemed to buy that story. I was prepared for all kinds of hell at bed time - sadness, anger, confusion, but mostly a lot of tears. I made a point of not planning to do any work, or anything really productive that night, as I imagined lots and lots of trips to put Luis back into bed, to console him, etc. I was ready to fight this fight.

Except that Luis went to bed without a peep; didn't even come down once. The next day, at nap time, he asked if there were any bacas. When I reminded him that there weren't, he took it in stride and went straight to sleep. It's been two days now, and all seems to be going well. Luis has barely looked back at his Baca days. It helps, a lot, that he LOVES LOVES LOVES the present the Baca Fairy brought him - a "airport rescue fire truck" (which really just means a neon green fire truck). He's told me at least 25 times how much he loves it.

Now, I'm just a little worried that on our trip, without the baca OR the toy, that he won't be so hip to the idea...

Some Like it Hot

I have had a very hard time encouraging Luis to embrace the warmer weather with warmer-weather clothes. He insists on wearing his "tall pants" every day. And most days, he requires a long sleeved shirt as well. It didn't matter that it was in the 80's today, Luis was intent on this particular outfit. When asked about the temperature or about being hot, Luis replies, "It's OK Momma, I LIKE to be hot."

Sigh. Wonder where he gets his stubborn nature from???

T-Ball: Opening Day!

We signed Luis up for T-ball this year, a team for 3 year olds, based in the neighborhood, that advertised no practices and Saturday morning games. It sounded ideal. Turns out that there were quite a few practices, many games on weekday evenings and not as in-the-neighborhood as we'd hoped, but it was still, pretty much, ideal.

The coach hosted a meeting at his house about a week before practices began. Luis was not at all psyched about the idea of t-ball, the coach, or the kids he saw at the meeting. He spent the whole 45 minutes climbing up on to either Diego or me, asking if it was time to go home yet. Going to the first practice brought out a similar attitude for him. But slowly, slowly he warmed up to it all.

On our way to the second practice, he told us, "I used to not like Coach or t-ball. But as it turns out, Coach is my friend." Whew! Glad Luis came to that realization on his own.

After a couple of weeks of practices, the kids on the team seemed to have learned how to hit the ball of the t-ball stand, how to run the bases (usually) in the proper order, and how to kick up big piles of dirt. Fielding the ball was pretty iffy, and usually ended up with several kids piled on top of each other. But they were having fun, and us adults enjoyed the show.

More fun than playing t-ball was scaling the fence.

Today was Opening Day. The league has teams with kids as young as Luis up to, I think, early teenagers. It was clearly with the older kids in mind that the schedule was made for the day: teams arrive at 8a, march in a "parade" at 8:45, Opening Ceremonies where all teams are introduced at 9a, and an hour break before the first game at 11:00a.

Trying to line the team up for the "march on" at opening day. Note the bucket of candy in the coaches hand.

Luis was not too keen on being left on the field with the team an the coaches while Diego and I went to join the spectators. There was much crying on his part and guilt on our parts. But in the end, Luis did march with his team (though he refused to where his hat) and participate in the events. Between the Opening Ceremonies and the first game, we took Luis out to breakfast. He promptly fell asleep in the car on the way back to the fields, at 11:30a. Sigh.

A little pre-game nap

The game itself was pretty hilarious. Much like practices, hitting and running the bases worked pretty well. Every kid gets to stay at bat until they hit a playable ball. Then, they advance one base, regardless of the fielding that is done. Then, each kid gets a turn at bat, regardless of the outs. It is definitely a fair process that lets each child get a turn. But also much like practices, the fielding of the ball was like watching the Three Stooges. Some kids ran after every ball, regardless of their position on the field or where the ball was hit. Some kids never noticed that a ball was in play, or that kids were running the bases.

Not sure what position Luis is (just to the left of the asst. coach in black pants), but at least for this moment, he was looking in the right direction.

Luis's first at-bat. Thank goodness for an exceptionally patient batting coach, Coach Thomas.

Easter Eggs

Easter is not a big holiday in our house, though I do have VERY fond memories of Easter in Norwell, with the Norris's (during my college years). They did it up right from the dying of eggs, great egg hunts, delicious feasts and as many friends and family as would make the journey. While it is the easter egg dying that I have tried to hold on to, it was the friends and family that I loved the most from those spring days.

Last year, we had Caleb and Bethany over to dye eggs and then have a hunt. Luis had a great time with they dying, but really didn't get the hunting part so well. This year, we were slow to get our act together, didn't invite anyone over, and actually didn't dye eggs until Easter evening after dinner. Whoops. But still, it was fun.

I wasn't really thinking the whole process through when I grabbed these shallow bowls. Lucky for us, Luis really like to move the eggs from bowl to bowl to bowl (to bowl), and to turn them constantly. So while few eggs were evenly colored any one given color, they were all fully dyed.

Unsupervised Marker Playtime

Luis was VERY proud of himself for this master piece!

(Incidentally, I think he looks a lot like his cousin Maggie in this photo.)